Whys. That keep coming up

Have you ever ask yourself. "WHY?"
Why do things always seem to go wrong?
Here are some of the Why's that have run thru my mind lately.
Why does cancer have to rear its face and make life difficult with those who have little ones? And with teen agers? Vicky it just isn't fair that you are battling stage four breast cancer! Your young sons need you! How can you stay so strong and positive as they find it more and more places?

Why do some marriages fail? And you never saw it coming? Why is it that friends have to hide what they are really going thru and not reach out for help? Don't know what I could have done to change it, but perhaps someone could have. Why do their children blame others for what their parents are doing and why do they try and not see the abuse? I was told they saw things time and time again, but it was never talked about. Why do kids and inlaws turn on the parent who finally says. I have had enough, I will take no more abuse? You say it has been a loveless marriage for years, why is it then so hard to come to an agreement on things as you split up?
I cannot imagine living in the same house with someone who refuses to speak to me.
How my friend do you do it? And why?

Why do plans never pan out?
You can plan on wanting to do things and they somehow just never work out the way you want them to.


Why does someone who has helped people all his life now have to be in a burn unit in such pain? Fighting for his own life and hoping to keep at least one leg.

Someone who has always been very active, now be bound in a wheel chair with a Disease that will soon take her life? Leaving her totally paralyzed and dependent on others for everything.

Why is it so hard to plan meals?
Loose weight?
Manage finances?
Get a good nights sleep?


The whys we cannot answer, but have to turn them over to God and let him take care of things. There are probably more, these are just a few that have been running rapid in my head lately.

Sometimes they have been keeping me awake at night. It is hard to just throw them up in the air and say. "Here God---- you are up all night anyway. You take them! You know all the whys anyway".

I am sure God has a purpose for everyhing. With his help we shall live one day at a time and try not dwell on the why's.

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